Thursday, July 29, 2010

"Ordinary" Moments of Grace


Funny how priorities can shift so quickly.


At 8:00 this morning, I finally came across some chairs on Craigs List I'd been searching for and immediately went to work on trying to figure out how we could pick them up from Seneca.

Soon afterward, I was getting dressed for the gym and would soon be on my way to meet Mr. Elliptical. The sun was shining, the music was playing in my car.

Then it all changed. The phone rang. It was the radiologist saying they had spotted something suspicious on a mammogram I'd gone for on Monday morning. At that moment, the chairs and Mr. Elliptical took an immediate back-seat.

Rewind: Last night, I led a women's study at our church on God's "ordinary" moments of grace ("Pursuing Spiritual Transformation - Grace... An Invitation to a Way of Life" by John Ortberg).

In it, he speaks of how believers seem to be able to grasp the idea of grace for our salvation but come up lacking when we think of it for our daily life. The first chapter pointed out the necessity for us to slow down and truly notice - become absorbed in - the graces of God that surround us at every moment. For the spiritual exercise he challenged the readers in this way:

"Today I will have eyes that see God's gracious daily provisions, even in the ordinary - a warm bed, a closet full of clothes, a comfortable pair of shoes, a hot shower, the ability to see, hear, walk, think, feel. I will look for God's grace around me - in scenes of natural beauty, in the face of a friend, in wholesome pleasures that bring me joy, in my church body gathered in worship."

So, with that in mind, I'd like to share some of the so-called "ordinary" moments of grace I noticed today and jotted down while in the waiting room awaiting my results:
  • An answer to my Monday morning prayer -- divine wisdom and discernment for the radiologists who would be reading the snapshots -- to see whatever needed to be seen.
  • God's timing. I was less than a minute away from walking in the gym (no phone access). Because I spoke with the radiologist prior to my going in, I was able to get in for my appointment today. The nurses were amazed when I shared that I had only spoken with the radiologist just a few hours prior. Somehow I don't believe my heavenly Father was so surprised:)
  • Advil. Enough said.
  • A Brown Sugar Blueberry bagel from Greenfield's Bagel Shop. I had thawed one out last night for today's lunch. It hit the spot before heading out for the follow-up tests/ultrasound.
  • On the way over, I heard the song "You Will Be Safe in His Arms" by Phil Wickham... twice.
  • The GHS employee who registered me had a coffee cup on her desk with the Philippians 4:13 verse.
  • "Andy Griffith" playing in the waiting room.
  • A smiling face on the woman conducting the ultrasound in the foreground and calm classical music playing in the background.
  • A clean report! The suspicious place turned out not to be so suspicious after all. :)
  • Remember the chairs from earlier this morning? My amazing husband took a half-day of vacation to drive to Seneca to pick them up for me. We arrived home at the same time. They are awesome -- and Misty, the owner of the chairs, was just as awesome!
  • And last, and OK, probably least, a small Mocha Frappe from McD's on the way home to celebrate the good report (Hey! If John can have his comfortable shoes I can have my frappe! :)
One final quote from the study book to close this post out:

"Train yourself to notice, to pay attention, to become absorbed in the grace of your Shepherd."

Thank You, Jesus, for this day of training. It was anything but ordinary.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Music. Moments. Memories.

For as long as I can remember, music has taken hold of this heart of mine. Lyrics and melodies seem to effortlessly intertwine with the daily happenings of life to create moments and memories that can quietly linger.

Case in point. Last Sunday morning could not come soon enough for me as I made my way to the beach - a sight I had not enjoyed in quite some time. I propped up my beach chair, popped in my Shuffle ear buds and watched the waves chase the sandy shore over and over again. It was a moment I wanted desperately to preserve. The music, the moment, and the memories.

Imagine, if you will, sitting on the beach, looking out at the vastness of the ocean, smelling a sea breeze so salty that it makes your blood pressure rise, and feeling wet sand etch between your toes while these songs play in the background:


David Crowder, "Here is our King":

Here is our King
Here is our Love
Here is our God who's come to bring us back to him
He is the one,
He is Jesus

From wherever spring arrives
to heal the ground

From where ever searching comes to look itself
A trace of what we're looking for
so be quiet now, and wait
The ocean is growing

The tide is coming in


Here it is:
Here is our King
Here is our Love

Here is our God who's come to bring us back to him

He is the one,
He is Jesus

And what was said to the rose to make it unfold

Was said to me, here in my chest

So be quiet now, and rest.

Majesty!

Finally!

(It was all I could do to stay seated when this played)


David Crowder, "Only You":

Take my heart, I Lay it down At the feet of you whose crowned

Take my life, I’m letting go
I lift it up to You who’s throned

And I will worship You, Lord
Only You, Lord
And I will bow down before You
Only You Lord

Take my fret, take my fear
All I have, I’m leaving here
Be all my hopes, be all my dreams
Be all my delights, be my everything

And It’s just you and me here now
Only you and me here now

You should see the view
When it’s only You

(Even with a multitude of people around, it often felt like it was just me and God hanging out together on the beach enjoying His creation -- just You and me here now.)


Frank Sinatra, "The September of My Years":

The melancholy lyrics say it all:

One day you turn around, and it's summer
Next day you turn around, and it's fall
And all the winters and the springs of a lifetime
Whatever happened to them all


As a man, who as always had the wandering ways
I keep looking back to yesterdays
'Til a long forgotten love appears
And I find, I'm sighing softly as I near
September, the warm September of my years


As I man, who has never pauses at wishing wells
Now I'm watching children's carousels
And their laughter's music to my ears
And I find, that I'm smiling gently as I near
September, the warm September of my years
- The golden warm September of my years


It was hard to keep a dry eye while listening to this song on the beach -- maybe because so many of my favorite childhood memories originated in Garden City, SC. We traveled there every year while growing up, sharing a large house with my dad's extended family. The song "The September of My Years" was played at my grandfather's funeral while pictures of his life flashed across a screen. How apropos.


The song reminded me of particular childhood memories at the beach -- my dad letting me sit on his shoulders in the ocean so as not to get clobbered by the waves (hint, hint, Brian!) -- his rallying the troops to the different card tables ready for Set-back marathons, my grandfather rocking on the screened back porch for hours, and my grandmother in the kitchen cooking full meals for everyone to enjoy. Those are fond memories which will forever remain etched in my mind.

But time changes and so do people. Fast forward 40 years. I now find myself the mother-in-law of two amazing young women who are head-over-heels for their hubbies and love Jesus even more. I watch them in awe as they both are truly walking answers-to-prayer -- testimonies of God's goodness, grace, and transforming mercy. I'm also the mom to two amazing young men who I would enjoy spending time with even if they were not my sons. I love them, I like them, and I respect them immensely. (Both boys are also on my Ipod. How cool is that?) I also find myself married to a man who makes me feel the need to pinch my arm often to ensure I'm not dreaming. :)

Gather all those wonderful family members together, along with one still amazing dad and step-mom, throw in one of the best movies I've ever seen (Inception), a fun (but humid and claustrophobic's worst nightmare) round of putt-putt golf, two dinners at Sarah J's, and an ocean side dinner date with the hubby, and you have a beach trip that will also remain etched in my mind as one of the best trips ever.

Music. Moments. Memories.

Priceless.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

More to Come

A beach posting is in the making for THE best beach trip I can remember. My only regret? I didn't journal all the thoughts swirling around in my mind throughout week. Hence the delay!

But there is more to come....

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Happy Birthday Zach!

Happy Birthday Zach!

If we had known how talkative he would be just a few years later,
we would have enjoyed these blanket moments even more. ha!
He's been pure joy since day one.


In the Baker household, we are blessed to have
TWO reasons to celebrate today...

Zach's birth and the wonderful anniversary of
Brandon and Megan's marriage!
Happy Third Year Anniversary!!!

We are very blessed indeed.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Will Trade Baptist Church for Luxury RV

That's the title that grabbed my attention in Craigs List this weekend!

Whew, I sure am glad the true church doesn't consist of boards and mortar.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Dogs May Be Man's Best Friend, but...

the Elliptical machine is mine!


Today I found a way to burn 500 calories in 41 minutes.

Cha-Chang!

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Home Sweet Home!

First and foremost... HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BRANDON!
He was the original Karate Kid! What a cutie. It's hard to believe twenty-seven
years have passed since people peeked their head in my room asking if I was
the woman who'd had the 10 lb+ baby. Yes, indeed!
I've been a proud mom ever since.


Secondly... check it out! We live in one of the top 10 towns for families,
according to the August issue of Family Circle.



(Click pic to read)

Ah, home sweet home.



Monday, July 5, 2010

It's Official - We're A Fan of the "New" Table!

This is what happens when you ask everyone to smile for the camera. (Sarah, Zach's on your team!)

We had a great 4th with Zach, Sarah, and Chris coming over in the afternoon for a cookout. Of course, it wouldn't be a proper Baker gathering without games following dessert and coffee! We started playing Michigan Rummy, but by the time we got to "9" we were ready to skip to royalty. Chris left us all in the dust.

The "new" table is perfect for games. It's sturdy as all get out -- love it!

Brandon & Megan, we missed you much!!! It won't truly be "official" until we're all gathered at the table together. :)