In Search of the Perfect Prayer Bush

by Cathy Baker

Do you sometimes go to a particular spot to pray?

I have a friend, Dee Dee, who lives in the NC hills. Actually, a hollow. When introducing me to her several years ago, Beth used the words prayer warrior. Now I know why. 

Many a day, Dee Dee has headed outdoors to her prayer bush on my behalf or that of my family. At times she places a ribbon on the bush as a reminder of a particular request. I’m hoping she’ll blog in more detail about her special place of prayer in the near future.

While a bush itself holds nothing special when it comes to prayer, I took two things into consideration when picking mine out:

  • I searched for an evergreen as a reminder that Jesus always lives to intercede for me. (Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them. Hebrews 7:25). And unlike deciduous shrubs, evergreens remain the same regardless of the season. (Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. Hebrews 13:8)

  • Fragrance was a must. Let my prayer be counted as incense before you, and the lifting up of my hands as the evening sacrifice! Psalm 141:2 

The winner? A four-year old Fragrant Tea Olive. It just so happens to be one of my favorite shrubs (which explains why I’ve planted 6+ in our yard.) It’s not the prettiest shrub in my yard, but then again, neither are my prayers. They’re simple, not eloquent or poetic, just as my Father desires.

So, how about you? I’d love to hear one of your favorite places to pray and/or what shrub you would choose from your yard to use as your prayer bush.

Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance rising up to God. But this
fragrance is perceived differently by those who are being saved and by
those who are perishing. 2 Corinthians 2:15





When Heaven’s Portals Peek Open

by Cathy Baker

I wonder if she peeks over my shoulder on days like this. 

Days when I comb my granddaughter’s hair like she once combed mine. Soft and slow, watching each strand snap back into place.

Days when my granddaughter takes off running for the daffodil patch in hopes of finding one to pluck from its hiding spot.

Days when I sit with my baby grandson on one knee and a “big girl” granddaughter on the other, both vying for my attention — one with a coo and the other with a pat on the shoulder. 

Days when tears make way over my crooked smile as I stare at pictures of another sweet granddaughter far away, yet so close to my heart.

I know of no biblical evidence to support my wondering ways. Yet to place any mortal-minded limitations to what God might do in the heavenlies is foolish. 

The Word does say that we cannot perceive what God has prepared for those He loves. So does this mean I believe God somehow allows my grandmother to occasionally peek through the portals of heaven?

I can’t say for sure, but on days like this, I can’t help but smile at the possibility. 
 

“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him.” 1 Corinthians 2:9

 

When a One-Liner Becomes a Game Changer

 

by Cathy Baker

I love one-liners, especially when they’re girded with truth. As our community Bible study group closes out the Gideon study I’m reminded of the testimonies we’ve received. Spiritual eyes opened, forgiveness forged, and callings confirmed. May the fragrance of Christ continue to invade our lives and captivate those around us.

15 one-liners from our study:

  • Today’s difficulties are often a result of yesterday’s disobedience.  

  • Ordinary is often the disguise of the divine.
  • Knowing God’s purpose requires first being aware of God’s presence. 
  • Opened eyes precede your calling being realized.
  • Today’s tasks are preparation for tomorrow’s calling. 
  • If God said it then, He still means it now. 
  • Who you are is more important than what you have been called to do. 
  • Pride forgets. Humility remembers. 
  • Many of life’s external difficulties find their roots in the internal reality of pride. 
  • Don’t try to retain what God is asking you to release. 
  • Your faith can be stronger than a fleece. 
  • A vessel’s value is not determined by its composition but by its contents.
  • Finishing well could mean not finishing. 
  • Modernized idolatry is still idolatry. 
  • Commitments trumps convenience.  

Which of these means the most to you right now? 

Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget none of His benefits. Psalm 103:2


Three Tangible Ways To Encourage Someone Today

Perhaps you remember my post When Wonder Taps on Your Window from last summer?

In it, I shared how an older woman tapped on my car window at the least expectant moment. I’d not seen her in years but she quickly filled the gap with questions. It went something like this: Cathy,
do you remember the basket you made for me and Keith? (Her husband
was terminally ill at the time.) You had little gifts in it and each one
had a Scripture verse that matched the gift. Some women in my church
would like to start making the same baskets for hurting people in our
church. Could you write those down for me?

Below are a few of the gifts that were tucked in Keith’s basket that day. Each includes a suggested tag along with a Scripture verse.

  • A pocket-pack of
    Kleenex (Pier One has colorful options for less than a dollar.) Taped to the pack, a tag read: Not one of your tears has gone unnoticed by
    your heavenly Father. He cares…and so do I. You have kept count of my wanderings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book? (Psalm 56:8)
  • Mini-loaf of bread.
    Tied with a pretty ribbon, the tag read: Jesus, the bread of
    Life, is the source for all your needs — emotionally, physically, and
    spiritually. Then Jesus declared, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty. (John 6:35)
  • Votive candle. I dropped the votive in a small
    clear bag and tied the top with a simple cord or ribbon, with a tag that read: You’re not alone during this difficult time. Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” (John 8:12)

Know someone in need of a little encouragement this week? The gifts above are practical and inexpensive but they point to an extravagant Love. 

If you have an idea to add to the list, I’d love to hear more. To God be the glory!

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father
of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17

Creating Unforgettable God-Glorifying Gatherings

Every other Wednesday, you’ll be greeted with a NEW gathering idea. Most times, the focus will be on tea gatherings but I’ll be sure to include girlfriend gathering ideas along the way as well. On Wednesdays in between, you’ll find favorite recipes, along with thoughts and ideas on hospitality in general. 

Today, I’d like to begin by sharing some basic tips on planning a tea party, with our main focus on relationships rather than hosting the so-called perfect tea. Keep your gathering as simple as you’d like. Feel free to choose none, one, some, or all of the tips below! 

  • Prayer is to our gathering what a tablecloth is to a tea party—foundational. Everything else is built upon it. From the get-go of our preparations, let’s begin praying for those God would have us invite. We never know what God has up His divine sleeve! By immersing our time in prayer we provide an opportunity for an unforgettable God-glorifying gathering.
  • Invitations. Is there anything more inviting than a handwritten note? With the big picture in sight, any type of invite will work (yes, even a call, email or texting) but taking the time to write a note is pretty special these days.
  • Music. Choosing instrumental selections for background music is ideal. Piano, harp, Windham-Hill, etc. Play it lightly. If guests are having to raise their voices, even a tad, it’s too loud.
  • It’s nice to keep in mind that not all care for tea (gasp!) so we’ll want to offer an option such as coffee, hot cider, etc., based on the season.
  • Non-scented candles are always a must. Some, like myself, are allergic to strong aromas and trust me, the last thing we want is Frasier fir mixing with Earl Grey. 🙂
  • Greenery. If snipping from our yards, we’ll want to be sure to give it a quick spray in the kitchen sink to remove any pesticides or bugs that may want to crash our tea time. Nothing says Welcome! like a spider creeping over a cup.
  • And last, but not least, there’s the empty chair. Leaving one chair empty at our table is a tangible reminder to everyone that Christ is present and desires to fellowship with us. 

Do you have a tidbit or two you’d like to share? I welcome the opportunity to learn from you.

Questions? Feel free to leave it in the comment box area, email, or message me via Facebook. If I don’t have the answer, I’ll try to find it for you!

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