“A” for Advent

I thought leading our Sunday C4 Group in Advent for the next four Sundays was “Plan B”, but now I’m convinced it was God’s “Plan A” all along.

Anticipation
Celebration
Reflection
Stillness
Simplicity

Even those of us with the best of intentions in keeping Christ as our focus can subtly, but oh so easily, get sucked down the drain of commercialism, unfortunately.

Celebrating Advent with our group each week will be a gift, in a sense — one of time, intention, and focus on the only One who could possibly turn a supposed “Plan B” into God’s best.

Self-Sufficiency Clad in a Yellow Frock Dress


A yellow frock dress, blond curls, a matching bow, and the face of an angel.

This adorable four-year old and her mother came in this morning just as the service was about to begin. Before making their way down the lengthy staircase to find a seat, the mother peered over the top step, and promptly reached for the tiny tot’s hand. It took just a steady step or two before the toddler gained a new-found confidence and quickly jerked her hand away from the mother’s ever extended hand, only to grab it once more when she began to teeter.

As I watched this tug-of-war play out in front of me, it became uncomfortably all too familiar.

Life begins to teeter, throwing me off balance and into a whirlwind of unknowns. It’s during these times, when I tend to latch on to my heavenly Father’s hand–and all it represents–with a death grip. However, let life become a bit too comfy, “doable” if you will, and much like the little girl, I sadly find myself spiritually jerking away from my Father’s ever extended hand.

Dress me up in a yellow frock dress and buy me a bow (on second thought, please don’t). No amount of angelic illusions can mask the ugliness and emptiness found in self-sufficiency.

The cure? We must refuse to “dress up” the sin of self-sufficiency–call it for what it is–repent–and then run into the arms of our heavenly Father.

Experience His embrace and we’ll never settle for simply holding His hand ever again.

Are You a Fan of Look Homeward Angel?

If so, I think you will truly appreciate the following glimpses found inside this story-filled home described in Thomas Wolfe’s classic novel, “Look Homeward, Angel”:

You’ll notice the apartment building to the immediate right. The city has progressed but has thankfully left a small area of land intact for this wonderful site. There is also an adjacent building which houses many artifacts as well as the 20 minute video that accompanies the guided tour.

Can’t you just see Ben and Eugene (Thomas) conversing with their mother’s boarders on this front porch?

Thomas Wolfe stayed in this room upon his final trip to Asheville, seven years after the novel was published. The time gap was necessary due to Thomas’ honest and forthcoming descriptions of certain townspeople. Many were upset and some had even threatened Thomas’ life. Later, however, after the novel became popular, it would be those who were not included in the novel who found themselves upset. Ah, humanity.

This is one of the sun-porch rooms — and by far, the room where I would have wanted to spend the most time. It was rustic, yet bright and airy. Eugene (Thomas) spent many nights in this room.

This is the room, the one with the bay window Thomas couldn’t stand, where his beloved brother Ben passed away from double pneumonia at the age of 26. Although beautiful, it contains a tinge of sadness.

Here’s the parlor where their father spent much time in front of the coal-burning fireplace once he became sick.

And this was Eliza’s (Julia Wolfe’s) room. It is just off the massive kitchen and the smallest room in the house. Being the astute business woman that she was, the larger rooms (I believe 18 bedrooms in all) were saved for paying customers. But I liked her tiny room. It had its obvious perks. Nice sunlight, a comfy bed, a place for books, a small mirror, and did I mention it was within tip-toeing distance of the kitchen? What more could a girl ask for?

If you’ve read “Look Homeward, Angel”, you may remember how Eliza (Julia Wolfe) would send Eugene (Thomas) out to greet those departing local trains with business cards promoting their boarding house. For each customer he enticed, his mother would give him $1.00. (The one line “No Sick People” would have been enough to draw me in.)

During the tour, our guide gave each person one of the cards seen above — an exact replica of those Thomas would have handed out at the local train station. My husband, who is always on the ball, asked the guide for a few extras, thinking I may have a few fellow “Angel” fans in my writer’s group or beyond, who would enjoy using one for a bookmark.

So, if you’re an “Angel” fan, and would like to receive one, I would welcome the opportunity to share it with you. I can drop it in the mail, so it doesn’t matter where you live!

This novel took me to a wonderful place and time as I soaked in all the sights and sounds of a forgotten era. While I could have easily done without some of the language (a rude awakening when you’re accustomed to reading Christian non-fiction), the Lord used it as a catalyst of appreciation for my own family.

My time in Altamont (Asheville) was well spent.

The Making of an Extraordinary Weekend

Much like our getaway weekend, I’ll keep this short and sweet.

As many of you know, Brian and I celebrated our 20th year wedding anniversary last week. We could have escaped to many places for this momentous occasion, but we chose instead to celebrate it in our favorite mountain cabin, tucked away in the Saluda NC mountains.

Highlights included:

  • A yummy (and beautiful) birthday cake from McFarlan’s Bakery in Hendersonville NC. White cake, buttercream icing, with piped fall leaves all a flutter.
  • An amazing drive through the Watershed. Though the leaves were not brilliant, God’s handiwork certainly was.
  • Bargain Shiny-Brites. $1.00 a box, all in the original packaging. Fa-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la!
  • Bon-appetit! The meals were scrumptious. Kudos to the Purple Onion, Saluda Grade Cafe, and Green River BBQ. If you’re in the area, you must give them a try!
  • Lots of reading/writing time with Rupert (our spoiled Lhasa) curled up in my lap.
  • An adorable find in a downtown Hendersonville antique shop — a child’s metal bench (see below). We plan to screen in our back porch soon and this will fit just perfectly.
  • A new twist to bargain basement finds! Up until Saturday, our search for a bench to go with our farm table had been to no avail. And then we met Roy Eargle, a 79 year old man with a quick smile and owner of an antique store, Estate Antiques, located in downtown Saluda. After pointing us to the basement of his store, the search was over. There, we came across two old, but smoothly worn beautiful 7′ benches covered with original patina for an amazing price. Sold!
  • And last, but certainly not least, we visited the Old Kentucky Home, Thomas Wolfe’s childhood home and basis for his classic novel, “Look Homeward, Angel”. Touring the very house I’m currently reading about, with all its past stories still lingering through original furnishings and finds, was simply phenomenal and downright inspiring. I plan to post a few pictures of our tour tomorrow.


Okay, so much for this post being short — but it was sweet!

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