As described by psychologist Carl Jung, introversion refers to energy flow and the tendency of some people to draw energy from the inner world — their focus is inward, on ideas and reflection, and they typically seek solitude to recharge their batteries. Many enjoy people and welcome social encounters and aren’t shy at all, but too much socializing would be draining for them.
My recent admission to being an introvert was met with disbelief and a few hints of laughter as our writer’s group cackled till midnight—yet it’s oh so true. I love people and enjoy “doing life” with women in different settings throughout the week, but without times of solitude, my battery is quickly zapped.
During our ten month search for a church home, we remained open to the Spirit’s leading in regard to a Sunday School format vs. life/small groups. For various reasons, the more structured-type teaching has always appealed to me a little more. We’ve “done life” with groups in the past and counted each a blessing, but I struggled nonetheless.
Brian and I knew life groups were an integral part of Summit Church before visiting but it wasn’t until several weeks later, when we began sensing a true attachment to the church, that the reality of life groups hit home.
This won’t be comfortable.
Four words that sent my brain into a frenzy, like rowdy toddlers on a playground, until Truth quieted them with five words of His own.
Who says it should be?
In that glorious moment of conviction I realized how complacent I’d become. Since when did anything worth pursuing feel comfortable? Confession came quick (Hebrews 10:I9) and freedom forged in forgiveness swiftly followed.
This conviction, coupled with Sunday’s powerful message by our Campus Pastor, Brooke Taylor, left me feeling excited about the life group we were to attend that evening. One truth in particular from the message spoke life into this introvert’s soul:
Community doesn’t just happen — it requires intentionality.
Here’s why I share my testimony: I know I’m not alone. There are others out there who feel there’s no greater place to be than a quiet nook, furnished with a good book and a hot cup of tea. I get it—but this doesn’t mean we’re not cut out for life groups. It simply means we require an extra dose of intentionality, with a booster shot of courage.
Cathy, I'm an introvert too, so I've found I have to push myself to be intentional to create community. I'm glad I'm not the only one who struggles with this and thankful for this reminder to not let my "introvertedness" keep me from following God's call to all of us to seek meaningful relationships with people.
Thank you for sharing, Allison. It's nice knowing we're not alone. 🙂
Cathy,
I completely get it when it comes to introversion. I enjoy being with others, but I need the alone time to recharge too.
Convicting post, as you challenged us to step out of our comfort zone and be take a risk.
And who knows? God may use us in someone else's life.
Love this, Cathy! Weird being an introvert who doesn't seem like one in certain settings, isn't it? Great topic! You should do more on life as an introvert!
I hope so, Ellen. We're all in this together, right? Thanks for stopping by!
Hmmm…I may just do that, Lori. Thanks for the idea. It's obvious I'm not alone on this journey!
I'm one too!…so no, you are far from alone. I've always said that I love people individually, just not collectively (LOL) because something happens to ME. I get overwhelmed and feel myself being zapped of energy and ability to think and absorb it all. Thanks for making me feel not alone.
Thank YOU Debra!
I love my comfort zones! But I can only grow so much inside my little bubble. Thanks for the reminder to pop it occasionally and get out!
(Glad you found a community group!)
Thanks for sharing, Susan. We feel very blessed to have found such an incredible community of Christ-followers who are passionate about their journey. Refreshing!
Cathy, I love the phrase about being intentional to create community. I believe that I am a a happy blend of introvert/extrovert…so I get it! Although I cherish my quiet times, I love doing life with others. Love this blog post!! Ps. Glad you found a church home!