Twenty-three years ago, I was directed to a newly formed “New Beginnings” Sunday School class. My wounds, still fresh from a punt kick to the heart, made me wonder if I’d ever fit into a Southern Baptist Church.
I dropped the boys off at their classrooms and nervously proceeded to a little brick house perfectly situated on the church campus. I couldn’t help but wonder what or who awaited me behind the six-paneled door. Could there really be other young divorcees in this church who might relate to my circumstances?
I inhaled as much courage two lungs would allow, turned the knob, and slowly opened the door.
A quick survey of the room left me both stunned and delighted as I noticed the majority of the group were older men and women who had been widowed.
Immediately, a woman who’d agreed to co-lead the new class stepped up, wrapped her arms around me, and welcomed me with a warm smile that could melt any barrier guarding the heart. Her name was Lavana.
Over the next few months, I attended a masquerade for our group at Lavana’s home and hopped on the church bus for a local fish fry, among other things. This group of men and women embraced me despite my sinful past. Unconditional love defined.
This past Sunday, I drove back to that church in my hometown to attend Lavana’s visitation services.
As I made my way home, I couldn’t help but wonder how things might be different today had she not stepped up to help lead a new class so many years ago. What if she’d been too busy or too timid to step out on faith?
Lavana loved well. Served well. Prioritized well.
And as a result, many will be forever grateful. Who will say the same about us?
been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the
joy of your master.’
What a sweet tribute, Cathy. Lavana sounds like a gracious, godly lady and a true Godsend in your life. We never know how far-reaching our obedience is. And worse, all the "could have beens" when we didn't obey.
Glad you got to go to her visitation. I know her family appreciated the legacy she left.
Thank you, Susan. You're right — we never know the eternal benefits of obedience or the eternal regrets of the "could have beens".
I always enjoy your blog, but this week's series is particularly helpful. Great comments shared too. I hope everyone will stop by for a visit. 🙂
Cathy, this post touched my heart. It made me think of Nan. She and I began coresponding over 2 years ago. From the first email, I could feel her love and exceptance. When we finally met in person for the first time last Febuary, it confirmed what I already knew. It doesn't matter that I can't physically see. It doesn't matter that each time we get up to move, she has to take my hand and guide me to the next spot. She does it willingly and graciously. I can only imagine the legacy she'll leave, and I'm honored to be part of that legacy.
What little I know of Nan (I look forward to getting to know her better!) I understand why you love her so much. She is obviously leading your heart even more than your hand. What a blessing!
Cathy–oh, I am so thankful for Lavana for you! What a wonderful example and reminder for us to listen, obey and act. Your tribute not only honors, it inspires! Thank you my precious friend.
Thank you, Cathy. Thank you for the reminder that we never know how our actions can affect others for eternity.
I'm sure she felt just as blessed to have you as her friend. Beautiful friendship from God…
Thank you, Kim. You're quite the inspiration as well. Love you!
You're so sweet, Vonda. Not only was she a dear friend to me she was a God-send to my grandmother. She drove to Greenville to visit her on a regular basis when she was moved to assisted living. I imagine their first heavenly hug was, well…heavenly.
A blessing indeed. 🙂
Cathy,
I'm about to cry this is so precious. I love your story and this example of one who touched eternity. 😉
I too have a similar story and am reminded of my partnership with God in the furtherance of the Gospel. 😉
God bless you as you treasure these memories in your heart.
Love, Hester 😉
Thank you sweet Hester.
I hope you're feeling much better. 🙂
Lovely, Cathy. Beautiful tribute
Thank you, Ellen. 🙂 I hope you're feeling better today!