Gifts of all types abounded during our long weekend getaway:
- Time with the hubster. We enjoy each others company even more twenty-two years later.
- The cabin. Shiny hardwood floors, bright, clean, quiet, and equipped with a flip-switch fireplace, an oversize comfy chair, and the perfect reading lamp (yes, this is an important detail!)
- The back porch. Views of a well-grazed pasture, kaleidoscopic-colored leaves, and a pure white peacock that made this 50 year-old heart skip a beat when it flew off the back roof (Did I mention I was standing directly beneath the roof at the time?)
- Newly discovered yummy places to eat. Visiting the Flat Rock or Hendersonville area? These two places are a must: Mean Mr. Mustard’s Cafe (BEST grits ever!) and Flat Rock Village Bakery (fresh pizza made with fresh herbs and sauces).
- Quiet time. Our yearly ritual on this particular getaway is to spend a half day to ourselves. Brian usually heads up to Asheville to check out vinyl record collections while I stay at the cabin soaking in the scenery via pen and paper.
This year, because of the big 5-0, my anniversary/birthday gift from Brian is a dining room makeover. While antique shopping on Friday, I ran across the “perfect” corner cabinet at Architectural Warehouse in Tryon. Well, perfect in every sense of the word — except financially. It would’ve eaten up the entire budget for the room, so we headed back up the mountain to settle in for the night. I was disappointed but realistic. The Craig’s List search continued.
The next morning, however, when we returned home, I walked through the front door to find this sitting in the corner of my dining room:
Instead of heading to Asheville Saturday morning (as he’d said), Brian drove in the opposite direction, purchased my cabinet, and delivered it to our home almost an hour away, making it back to Flat Rock in time for our anniversary dinner.
The gift itself was the best surprise ever — but the fact that Brian would go to that much trouble and give up his fun day for me came as no surprise at all. He is truly the kindest and most selfless person I know—just one of a trillion+ reasons why I am still head-over-heels with this man twenty-two years later. Thank you, honey!
Also, a tremendous thanks to those of you who called, emailed, texted, sent cards, and wished me a “Happy Birthday!” via Facebook. You have no idea how much your thoughtfulness meant to me. More importantly, how much you mean to me.
A Most Beautiful 50er. Happy Birthday, Cathy. And wow! what a hubby. You're right–the getting of the gift is even more special than the gift. May this year be full of God's presence in your places.
Happy birthday, Cathy. You will always be beautiful inside and out!
Love the cabinet Cathy!! What a special memory to hold in your heart forever. 😉 So glad you had such a wonderful trip Cathy – God bless you both. love, Hester 😉
Wow! Does Brian have a brother? Kidding! I'm married now (and happily). But, wow, what a guy. So happy you had a most excellent birthday weekend. And a half day to yourself to write! Even more WOW!
Thank you, Marcia. 🙂 A "wow" kind of hubby is right! I appreciate your prayer the most…for it is my prayer too.
Vonda, I hope you have a wonderful time in the mountains! Thank you for the birthday wishes. I know how busy you are these days.
Thanks, Hester! It is a special memory indeed — one I don't expect to ever forget. 🙂 I appreciate your stopping by today!
Ha, Deb! You're hilarious! Yes, he is a "wow" kind of guy, no doubt. 🙂 Quiet time outside was certainly a treat. The goats kept me company, though. 🙂
What a beautiful setting you were in. I love the nature you describe. Glad you had such a great birthday and anniversary!
Thank you, Ellen! Our breakfast Monday morning was the perfect ending to an amazing birthday weekend. 🙂