I’m not a fan of surprises.
I figure life offers up an ample share of them, so to balance things out, I’ll take my daily hum in a rhythm of slow and steady.
Sometimes, though, surprises make themselves right at home, like the one that showed up at my “doorstep” a few months ago.
Opportunity knocked and I opened the door.
I can’t go into details now, but since that tap on my “door”, I’ve worked some of the hardest and longest hours since becoming a writer. At every turn, the words you-are-wasting-your-time flicked at my head like the curled fingers of a pesky brother.
And yet, somehow, this work feels like an act of obedience.
Regardless of our calling, flicks of discouragement aim to distract and discourage:
- Who-do-you-think-you-are?
- Can-God-really-use-this (or you)-for-His-glory?
- Have-you-seen-what-______-is-doing? Why-should-you-bother?
Swatting at them only burns energy I have little of these days, so I’m learning to pause, take a breath, and face the pesky flicks with what we both know to be true:
1. We Need to Embrace the Opportunities But Release the Outcome
Opportunity knocks. We can either “open” the door, or pretend pamphlet peddlers are on the other side and ignore the taps. But it is God who determines what awaits us once we walk through the door.
The surprise knock on my door felt like a divine tapping of sorts, mainly because I didn’t go looking for it. It also aligns with the Word, and holds an opportunity to glorify Him. But this doesn’t mean the months of work will come to fruition as I hope, and that’s okay. I rest in knowing that I’m doing only what I can do⏤open the door.
I know the chances are slim for my “dream” outcome, but I don’t write for a dream.
I write for God.
And my guess is you do what you do for the same reason.
So we leverage those pesky flicks of discouragement by perceiving them as mini-opportunities to re-commit our work to the Lord, releasing the desire for a particular outcome, and trusting His best for us in every situation. Because here’s the thing:
When our joy is rooted in obedience rather than a particular outcome, there is a quiet satisfaction that roars of glory.
2. Only Truth Takes Lies Captive
Turn up the music, down another strong cup of joe, or check social media. It won’t matter. The pesky brother will use that time to strengthen his fat little fingers for a stronger flick when you return.
Let’s not waste our God-given time trying to run from discouragement. Let’s face it together, head on:
“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 10:5 NIV
When we release the desire to control the outcome, entrusting it to Christ, the lies lose their power, even their freedom to flick away as they please.
3. When Being Obedient There’s No Such Thing as Wasted Time
Take that, pesky brother! Surrendering the outcome to God means that time is no longer narrowed down to wise or wasted. Every moment of obedience is ripe with purpose.
“Growing closer to God is not the result of trying harder but of surrendering more.” Anonymous
So now I wait and pray to see what God will do and whatever that is, it is perfect for me.
But I still don’t like surprises.
Is there some way I can pray for you today? Maybe a door is opening or closing in your life, or perhaps you’re struggling to release the outcome. I welcome the opportunity to join arms with you in prayer.
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Oh my goodness, Cathy!! I so needed this today. My “pesky little brother” today has been sucking the confidence outta me to keep at it! That who wants to read my words anyway. You nailed it, girl!
Thanks for sharing, Tammy. I figure that the “pesky little brother” doesn’t bother pestering those who aren’t making some sort of contribution to the Kingdom, so keep up the good work! Praying for you.
Yes, let’s keep “trusting His best for us in every situation”! I’m praying for you! Feel free to pray for me too! We all have those “pesky little brothers”! Thanks for the encouragement! Big hugs to you!
And big hugs to you too, Kristi. I had a feeling I wasn’t an only child when it came to being picked on. *wink* I am praying for you, and thank you for mine. Hope to see you at Blue Ridge!
Thank you Cathy. Could have been pages from my journal. I appreciated and needed your reminders, thoughts, and scriptures. Blessings
Blessings to you, Marilyn! Thank you for taking the time to share. Hope to see you soon. 🙂
Beautifully expressed, dear Cathy. I agree – we must be obedient and faithful to pursue the opportunities God brings our way. He has a plan no matter what! Praying for you with love, dear sister in Christ.
Amen, Emily! I’m excited about the opportunities heading your way. 🙂 Thank you for your prayers…you’re in mine as well. ((( HUGS )))
Get ready! Favorite line(s).
I rest in knowing that I’m doing only what I can do⏤open the door.
So we leverage those pesky flicks of discouragement by perceiving them as mini-opportunities to re-commit our work to the Lord, releasing the desire for a particular outcome, and trusting His best for us in every situation.
When our joy is rooted in obedience rather than a particular outcome, there is a quiet satisfaction that roars of glory.
When we release the desire to control the outcome, entrusting it to Christ, the lies lose their power, even their freedom to flick away as they please.
Surrendering the outcome to God means that time is no longer narrowed down to wise or wasted. Every moment of obedience is ripe with purpose.
“Growing closer to God is not the result of trying harder but of surrendering more.” Anonymous
I will now copy this list and create a Cathy Baker document to save them. WOW! Thanks, Friend. <3
Oh, my. 🙂 Thank you, Sandra! You’re such an encourager. I hope you’re coming to Blue Ridge!
Lovely encouraging words here friend. 🙂 And I’m so excited for you and your tiny house next chapter 🙂 Yes …it sos freeing to trust the process and the outcome to Jesus.
Thank you, Betsy. It’s going to be exciting for sure and you’re so right — free indeed! 🙂
Cathy, so needed this as I open a new door. Thank you for your words of wisdom. Praying for you!
Thanks so much for those prayers, Debra. I’m thrilled over the new door that’s opening for you! Well deserved, my friend. Blessings…
I, too, am learning to leave the outcome to Him. I know that His plans for me are greater than I could ever dream or imagine. Love you Cathy.❤️
Yes, indeed! It is a learning process, isn’t it? I hope to see you in May. Love you too!
I am intrigued by the fact that God – the Almighty – chooses to ‘tap’ at the door of my soul. So many shrink away from His bidding. I was one; one who looked inward and found myself incapable. That’s what happens when we refuse to open the door. We are left with self. We reject the endless possiblities to live beyond all we can imagine. I am grateful God taught me to anticipate His knock, open the door, and experience the adventure of life beyond the door…no matter the outcome. Your post is a divine appointment for me, friend 🙂
You’re so right, Charla. When we’re left with self, we are left empty-handed. Adventure awaits the moment we say, “Yes!” ((( HUGS )))
Thanks for the sweet reminder, Cathy. God’s ways are so much higher than ours. I love (and needed) this word of encouragement too.
Yes they are, Joann. Holding onto this truth makes all the difference — freedom or bondage. To God be the glory! Thank you for taking time to share. I hope to see you at Blue Ridge in May!
Your poetic talent is showing in this heart felt post. I so enjoy the way you write. May the surprize turn into a beautiful celebration for you, Cathy. Your obedience will have unexpected rewards. Write on!
Thank you, Carolyn. I’ve already determined that it will be a beautiful celebration regardless of the outcome. 🙂